Until mainline support of QUIC are present in OpenSSL and GnuTLS, be
sure to test whether the found library versions are the patched ones
since the version number check is insufficient. This fixes the default
build on a system where a new GnuTLS is present without the patches from
the GnuTLS tmp-quic branch.

Add new ENABLE_OPENSSL and ENABLE_GNUTLS CMake options to allow
explicitly disabling these libraries to mirror the --without-openssl and
the --without-gnutls functionality of autotools.

Partially addresses https://github.com/ngtcp2/ngtcp2/issues/238